In the Harvard study, which statement describes a need of bereaved children?

• A. To help with schoolwork
• B. To know they didn't cause the death
• C. To participate in sports
• D. To write a letter to the deceased

Answer: (B)

Bereaved children often carry guilt, wondering if their actions somehow caused the death. The Harvard study shows that a key need for these kids is to know they didn’t cause what happened. Understanding this helps reduce self-blame and supports healthier grieving, letting them engage with others and cope more effectively. In practice, adults should offer clear, developmentally appropriate explanations about the death and reassure the child that they are not to blame, while inviting questions and providing steady emotional support. Other coping activities like helping with schoolwork, participating in sports, or writing a letter to the deceased can help with coping, but they don’t directly address the central need identified by the study.